I want to clarify what I said above. I have done all of the required studies and passed the ACBC (Association of Christian BIblical Counselors) Counselor's Exam in all subjects. I have completed 70% of the required supervised counseling, but I did not complete the remaining 30% and the time limit for completion has passed, so I am NOT ACBC certified, just ACBC trained.
Perhaps the most helpful book during my trials was The Excellent Wife by Martha Peace. The book includes chapters of: A Wife's Understanding of God, Sin, Relationships, Marriage and Her Role; A Wife's Responsibility- Christ, Home, Love, Respect, Intimacy and Submission; A Wife's Submission-Biblical Submission, God's Provision, Honoring Christ, Communication and Conflict;and A Wife's Special Concerns-Anger, Fear,Loneliness and Sorrow. I highly recommend it for an married Christian woman. Martha is an ACBC counselor, meaning she uses the Bible to explain and offer advice, not psychology. This book is an excellent read for engaged women as well.